The perfect woman

I have seen many females struggling and trying their best to become a perfect woman . But I always have these questions in my mind 

What is being like a perfect woman ?

Who decide the parameters for the perfect woman ?

How to become one ?

Why it is so important to be perfect woman ?

I wonder what is being perfect , is it being  most beautiful or is it having a perfect body  or is it being the best in academics , or being the perfect home maker, or having the best careers. Ahh I know the crieterias are way more than we think of .....

Generally the definition of being perfect is based on the brownie points awarded by society. family members or our pals. Rather than this , I believe to decide upon this should be in only one hand , that's yours. 

It should be only your decision to decide how you wanna look, how you should be dressed , what should you choose between being a home maker or being a career oriented woman , which size makes you feel happy and comfortable. Do not let anyone else be the driver of your choices and happiness.

For me being perfect is feeling beautiful from within, standing strong to face all the obstacles of my life , being independent and being happy and content with all the things I do and decisions I take for my self.  

When I look around and try to see the examples of perfect woman , I see my mom and mother in law who might not be so good in terms of looks or keeping themselves healthy but their powers are incomparable in terms of how they managed their home and careers . My sister in law , she is a pretty good jewelry designer but she decided to become a home maker and she did everything perfectly. Not that they never faced any failures, they were never criticized but they overcame everything with a smile on their face and aced everything they did. Yes ! They are true perfectionist

Talking about me I might not be great in household work but I was preety good in my studies and my work . I got a pretty face but I am not in perfect shape but does that makes me any less of a perfect woman. No ,it doesn't.

I know its easier said than done , but believe me I have been in this race where I just wanted to fit myself in portrait of a perfect woman . I tried really hard , tried giving my 100% to everything even if I had no interest in it , but you know what when I saw myself not doing any better,  I really felt very low on my confidence . Just for the information I am a very confident girl otherwise. 

So I decided , I will the happiest in the way I am because yes I do beilve in " Main khud ki favorite hu "

And yes I am perfect in every way I am . 

Trust me when you will tell you the sane and you will be way happier and way more confident.

"Being Happy and satisfied with yourself even with all your imperfections is the best definition of perfection."

You are beautiful !

Signing off 

Nidhi Bharkatiya